Paul and Samm Poteat give us perspective on the need to see God as greater than all things, even in relationships. God has made us for something greater and we were not meant to be satisfied by anything other than him. They then give two main ideas for dating:
Community is your context for your relationship
Let the gospel be what grounds you
Paul and Samm also give some practical ways to fight for holiness in your relationship:
Make your life about knowing Jesus and His gospel
Develop strong friendships with your gender
Develop strong relationships with the opposite gender, especially in group context
Seek council
Initiate/respond accordingly
Seek council again and continually
Unfortunately this audio was corrupted, but the Poteats did the same talk a few years ago. You can listen to the talk here.